Everything Ends With Pizza!

All these with one accord were devoting themselves to prayer, together with the women and Mary the mother of Jesus, and his brothers. Acts 1:14 ESV

Most of us speed by this verse like a neighbor we wave to as we start on a road trip. But this overlooked detail gives us a snap shot of the longest prayer vigil in history. These folks spent ten unhurried days together praying. During that time they became more than just a crowd, they became a family. In my last post I shared about lessons that I learned while my wife and I were part of a Brazilian church for over sixteen years. I do not pretend to be the greatest expert in the world on Brazilian culture, but these are from our own personal experiences. One of the most important differences was in how my brothers and sisters viewed time. They would say in Portuguese “tudo acaba com pizza” (everything ends with pizza!) which very loosely translated means “Don’t worry be happy!” You see, most of us Americans are far more stressed out about time than we realize. This impacts many areas of our life, not the least of which is how we pray. We like a jump start with “Our Father who art in heaven” then step on the gas as if we were in the final lap of the Indianapolis 500, racing to the finish line “Amen.” as efficiently as possible.

We used to joke about “Brazilian time” because church never started at the scheduled hour. A 6 PM worship service (Our main service) sometimes began at 6:25, with people still arriving 20 minutes later! But being perpetually late, came a blessing when it came to prayer and praise. Just as things worked slowly to begin, things also worked slowly so that they found time for all kinds of things we often miss in the American church. There was time to pray for every need. There was was time for a person to weep, while others gathered around to dry their tears. My favorite Prayer vigil service came on New Year’s Eve. That usually began at 10PM and went till mid-night. There were blocks of prayer time, interspersed with worship and testimony, with each segment being devoted to a special subject like families, missions or financial needs.

Everyone, from the oldest member of the congregation to the youngest baby came. When the children were tired, they slept, or if they fussed a bit someone usually came to hold them and give mom and dad a break. Then, at mid-night we would have communion and move down to the fellowship hall, where there was food, music and even funny prizes for the winners of games. We tarried together, lots of time passed allowing God to work in ways that an efficient, purpose driven schedule never gave time for. Those precious, vigílias de oração (Prayer vigils) not only left me with wonderful memories, they changed me forever. Yes I am still a go-getter typical American guy, but I have come to appreciate the lessons God taught me when I learned to slow down, wait for others and become a true part of His big family. Oh yes, there were also plenty of problems in our church, but God works all things together for good to those who love Him: or as they say in Portuguese: tudo acaba com pizza!

My wife and I with our Brazilian friends

4 thoughts on “Everything Ends With Pizza!

  1. Ah, the time differences! When I volunteered for a ministry to refugees, our orientation taught us, among other things, that there’s “cold climate time” and “hot climate time.” In the warmer climates, being on time is considered a little bit rude. And arriving early is the epitome of rudeness – your hostess might not be ready yet, and will be stressed out! (I think I belong in a hot climate. 🙄)

    • And after being in Brazil and Nepal I realized that not only are the road conditions often horrific and ever changing due to weather but also that most people were walking to church. The important thing to them was not just being on time, but valuing the time they had together.

  2. Thanks for sharing these wonderful memories, Pete! In the little Baptist church where I grew up, if it wasn’t in the Sunday bulletin we didn’t do it. As Vance Havner famously quipped, “Ours was the kind of service that started at 11 o’clock sharp and ended at 12 o’clock dull.

    Learning to wait on God, like these Brazilian brothers and sisters, is a daily goal for me. I appreciate your taking my limited experience with attending a series of solemn assembly meetings and enriching it with your own experience. God is good!

    • Thank you for challenging me to sharing these memories. We each have just one little part of God’s big jigsaw puzzle called His church. Every piece is needed no matter what shape or size or the big picture of God’s love will be missing something.

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