Memory Care

Are You Having a 5-String Day?

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While he was in Bethany, reclining at the table in the home of Simon the Leper, a woman came with an alabaster jar of very expensive perfume, made of pure nard. She broke the jar and poured the perfume on his head. 
Mark 14:3 NIV

Every Thursday I have great fun visiting the memory-care wing of a local nursing home and singing for my friends. But last week, as I slid my guitar out of its case, I was dismayed to see that one string had come completely off its tuning peg. Being presented with the options of, putting my guitar back in the case and singing acapella, spending several minutes trying to replace the string, or playing with just five strings, I chose the latter. Sheepishly I explained to everyone that things were going to sound funny and then set off plunking away the best I could. Yet, in spite of my embarrassment, we actually had a great time praising God together. We sounded far from professional, but I felt sure that Jesus didn’t mind my out-of-tune instrument any more than our off-key voices.

Now playing with a guitar string missing was challenging, but God reminded me that for some of those folks, even their best days were five-string days, at best. I remembered that the songs we sing are a treasure, not because of a nicely tuned instrument, but because of the joy they bring to the heart of God. We are all like the alabaster jar in today’s verse. We have a precious treasure inside. Even though our jar may begin as outwardly beautiful, it is also fragile and aging. What matters is not how impressive our outside looks, but the value of the treasure on the inside. And it is only when our jars begin to crack, that the fragrant treasure hidden on the inside can pour out and its sweet fragrance fill the room!

Don’t Give Up!

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And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up. 
Galatians 6:9 ESV

Returning to Life Care Center, to sing for the folks yesterday was a wonderful experience. It was also an amazing blessing to know that this year, in my absence several other people stepped in to keep the services going. It reminded me of lessons that I had taught but rarely experienced that nursing home ministry must not be a solo effort. Instead, as a church we are supposed to be “Team Jesus” and His work, and His message should be advanced even when one teammate has to sit on the bench for a while.

Teamwork makes the dream work, as they say, but mustering a team, has not been a quick process. Connecting our nursing home outreach to the leadership in our churches is essential if we are to make any serious progress. Years ago, we attended a large church that took nursing home ministry so seriously that they put together four or five teams of us and sent us all around our city to conduct services during Sunday School hour.

Sadly, that experience was not what we have seen elsewhere. Over the years, I have found that few churches are interested in investing time and resources in nursing home ministry. But if this is also your situation, don’t give up on your church. It will take a concerted effort, without getting discouraged or bitter to attract the leadership’s attention. Remember that they may already be overwhelmed with so many other tasks that it is hard for them to see the importance of serving nursing home residents. Yet in the Bible it is clear that God cares especially for widows and orphans, and He calls you and me to care for them. There is no one simple formula, no recipe or secret key, to getting more people involved, just be lovingly persistent. Don’t faint, because as you keep serving with all your heart, God has promised that there is a wonderful harvest of souls, precious to Jesus, who are just waiting to be reached within nursing homes and assisted living facilities all over our nation!

Singing With Virginia

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O Sing unto to the Lord a new song; sing unto the Lord, all the earth. Psalm 96:1 KJV

A few years ago, I had been praying for God to open doors at the long-term care facilities I visit, but I wasn’t prepared to see them swing open quite so wide. One morning I arrived at the memory-care ward of a local facility and found about a dozen folks seated in the TV area by the nurse’s station. They seemed happy to see me and as I took out my guitar and started singing “Put Your Hand in the Hand of the Man who stilled the waters!”, I noticed behind one lady pacing aimlessly back and forth hunched over her walker. I paid little attention to her until she suddenly started shuffling in our direction. Being concerned that she might fall, one of the nurses jumped up and gently redirected her back to the hall. But just a minute later she was back, and this time walked right up to me and stood quietly for a moment, then reached out her finger and touched the strings of my guitar. Curious to see what she would do; I assured the nurse that it was fine. “What’s her name?” I asked the nurse. “Oh, that’s Virginia.” She called back. I had not been able to see Virginia’s face because she was so completely bent over her walker but when she heard her name she looked up and smiled. Then as we started the next hymn Virginia began to sing. Her face lit up as our voices joined together, “Jesus – Jesus – Jesus – Sweetest name I know. Hears every longing of my heart – Keeps me singing as I go!” Oh yes doors began opening today but the one that swung the widest was the one to my heart. Virginia reminded all of us that everyone on earth can sing a new song for you!