The ear that listens to life-giving reproof will dwell among the wise. Proverbs 15:31 ESV

Have you ever watched little birds being shoved out of the nest when they are ready to go out on their own? The chicks like being comfy, just hanging around waiting for mom to bring them food. But comfort is not their mother’s goal. She knows that for them to survive, they will need to learn to fly. Just as that mother eagle pushes her little chicks from the nest, God sometimes uses criticism that others are leveling at us to nudge us out of our comfort zone.

In the 2021 Tokyo Olympics there were many who criticized Simone Biles for withdrawing from some of her events. What they did not realize was that the fear of not living up to other people’s expectations had put so much pressure on Simone’s mind, that she couldn’t focus. Her fear while performing endangered not only her winning any medal, but even her physical safety. Later Simone went on to win more medals and ended her career as the most decorated female American gymnast on the planet! Now, most of us will never be Olympians, but we like Simone, we need to learn that the secret of success is to accept the fact that we are not perfect. In fact, it is perfectly normal to be imperfect! For me, usually, my first reaction to correction or criticism is to bristle like a porcupine, but I have learned that sometimes our greatest detractors can also be the ones who motivate us to fly. We need to remind ourselves that God created us to be eagles and not porcupines. So instead of bristling our quills like a porcupine under attack, we need to just start flapping our wings. Remember that flying even a few feet off the ground is something no porcupine will ever do! When we learn to just relax and listen to correction, then God can begin teaching us how to fly. Then one day when we least expect it, He will help us to spread our wings and fly fearlessly farther and higher than we ever imagined!