Grandchildren are the crown of the aged, and the glory of children is their fathers. Proverbs 17:6 ESV
The fading photograph of he and my grandmother sits on our bookshelf, and the shadow of his hat covering his eyes makes me wonder what color they were. Though our youngest son is named after him, the life he once lived is as mysterious to me as the lost continent of Atlantis. All I know is that at the ripe old age of 16, he boarded a steamer in Naples and arrived in New York to begin a new life with the help of three brothers who had come before.
All that remains behind is a 100-year-old barber kit that sits on the dresser in our guest bedroom and an antique barber chair that a local shop bought from my cousin. I never heard his voice or knew what his favorite food was. He never took me for ice-cream or walked with me to a park. But my grampa missed these things, not because he was a bad guy, rather as a result of my parent’s less than amicable divorce and his passing away just two years after I was born.
This morning as I was thinking about all I missed from never knowing my grandparents, I remembered our grandchildren. The Bible says that God has given them to us as a crown. and a crown should be on our head, just as grandchildren should always on our mind. When we give them our time, watching a movie together or playing with them in the back yard, we are giving them the memory of the sound of our laugh, the touch of our hand and the color of our eyes. As we share in every little moment – yes, even the hard ones, they will want to know why we pray with them as we put them to bed. They will remember the songs we sing as they sit by us in church and every hug when we can no longer be there to hold them. Though we may not leave them trust accounts brimming with cash, if they receive our faith then they have received our greatest treasure. Grandchildren are given us as a crown, so while we have breath let’s not be the grandparents they never knew. Instead, may our lives remind them, when they are in the middle of their own storms, to trust in Jesus and find that He is the one who has known them and loved them from the beginning of time!
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I have so many fond memories of both sets of grandparents & two great grandmothers. My paternal grandparents gave me new KJV of the Bible when I was 16, a life changer for me 💙🙏
And I am sure that seeing your life change was a life altering blessing to the grandparents who gave it!
The grandparent/grandchild relationship can be life altering, even if you never meet!
Thanks Barb. Yes, it was quite a contrast. My maternal grandfather was like a dad to me in my father’s absence, while the other I never knew and yet they both have left an impact. – While we are on the subject, I would love to hear what your kiddos like to do with their grandparents in the summer. I always looked forward to a couple of weeks with my mom’s folks.
I think I can come up with something 🤔