Making Melody at Nursing Home

Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody 
in your heart to the Lord - Ephesians 5:19 KJV

Singing is so important that it is one of the few things we do on earth that we will also do in heaven. The key in helping seniors to sing, is finding ways, for everyone to make melody in their heart to Jesus. So, the best songs to choose are the ones that everyone can sing, because there must always be a “We” in worship. Here are three ideas that have helped me along the way.

First, remember that the voices of senior saints are not what they were when they were younger. But if George Beverly Shea and Burl Ives could record music into their 80’s and 90’s; there certainly is a way we can help seniors to participate. To begin with, the key we are playing the songs in makes a huge difference. Hymns were often written for much younger voices or for choirs to sing. Though those original keys were nice they are not sacrosanct. There is certainly nothing wrong with singing “Holy-Holy-Holy” in a key that is low enough for someone besides the cherubim and seraphim to join in!

Secondly, not only are our people’s voices changing, but their ears have also grown older. I happen to have an exceptionally loud voice (ask my wife!) and because of that I rarely use a microphone. But if you have a sound system available, please use it! If there is no microphone available, consider moving closer to your listeners. With my guitar I can walk back and forth in the room, and turn directly towards people, so that they can hear the notes, and hearing helps them to keep up with where we are at in the lyrics.

Finally remember that pacing and rhythm matter. In a nursing home meeting, even on a great day, most people only have energy to focus for about thirty minutes. Some have medications that make them sleepy, or aches and pains that make it difficult to stay put for long. The last thing we want to do is incorporate so many slow and gentle hymns, that half our audience falls asleep! I usually start out with familiar and easy songs such as “Just a Closer Walk”, so that as many people as possible join in. Then we usually pick up the pace a bit, with as many joyful songs as I have the energy for. Even Sunday school songs like, “The Joy of the Lord is My Strength” or “I’ve Got the Joy-Joy-Joy” work well. Just because they are older, doesn’t mean our friends won’t enjoy some fun and laughter. They will have plenty of problems to greet them after they leave our service. Of course, the idea is not just to sing fast songs, rather to give a variety. It is a good idea to slow down near the end of the service, for songs such as “The Old Rugged Cross”, “How Great Thou Art” or “In the Garden.” Now they are ready to focus, to pray and to allow God to speak His melody into their hearts. If you have any questions, would like to make a comment, or share your own experiences, please do. Someone may need to hear what you have to say!

Surrender All!

When Robert E. Lee surrendered at the Appomattox courthouse in 1865, Ulysses S. Grant didn’t want to hear, “I surrender some.” and neither does Jesus. But just as our country began to heal and become stronger than ever before, so it is when we surrender to Jesus. He hasn’t given HIs life to destroy ours, but to give us an abundant eternal life both in Heaven and for the time we have to serve Him here on earth. Why not surrender you all to Jesus today!

Living Water

But whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” John 4:14 ESV

The first stanza of the hymn “Springs of Living Water,” begins with the words, “I thirsted in the barren land of sin and shame.” Now, certainly every one of us who call ourselves followers of Jesus have been there at one time or another. The worst part of that time in the desert was that we were dying of thirst with no idea that we needed water. But our barren lands are not always limited to sin and shame. This morning some of us are wandering in the barren land of grief, a failed marriage or a life changing health issue. And just like the woman in today’s verse, we are trying to fill our thirst at a well that is filled with only a temporary solution. The good news is that Jesus is sitting by our well of temporary solutions and He offers us His gift of Living Water. The difference between His gift and what is in our well, is that while our water quenches thirst, it lasts only for a moment. The water that Jesus offers will become a well inside of us that will flow out to others. By grace His Living Water can pour out through us to others who are grieving, to people sitting alone or abandoned. The gift that Jesus gives, becomes Living Water not only to us, but through us for others and where “thirsting spirits can be satisfied” God will get all the glory!

For I will pour water on the thirsty land, and streams on the dry ground; I will pour my Spirit upon your offspring, and my blessing on your descendants. Isaiah 44:3 ESV