The Christmas Star

Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the reign of King Herod. About that time some wise men from eastern lands arrived in Jerusalem, asking, “Where is the newborn king of the Jews? We saw his star as it rose, and we have come to worship him.” Matthew 2:1-2 NLT

Many years ago, we hosted a Muslim exchange student from the tiny nation of Kosovo. Our student, Bardhyl was supposed to have been placed with another family, but after he was already on the plane headed for New York, the family who had originally agreed to take him had to back out due to a family emergency. Long story short, we stepped in, and our nice quiet empty-nest life was invaded by a fun-loving kid who had come to the United States to party.

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Now in all fairness, though Bardhyl had been a bit spoiled by his mom, they all had all been through a lot. When war had come to their country, they had evacuated and lived in Holland for a few years, before returning home to find their house had been ransacked by soldiers who had even stolen the family pictures off the walls and made a general mess. So, Bardhyl was filled with funny contradictions. On one hand, he was mature and thoughtful beyond most of the American kids his age, on the other, he wasn’t used to rules – like no smoking in our house! One night, about midnight, we thought we heard a noise outside, so I got up and looked out the bedroom window. In the darkness it looked like someone was standing just outside our home. I could just make out the glow of the coal of a cigarette. But as Nancy came to join me and we looked a little closer we saw that, it was Bardhyl, leaning out his window. He had kept the rule of not smoking in the house, because though his feet were inside, his upper torso and cigarette were outside! Oh, how we laughed, as we lay back down and went back to sleep. Bardhyl did all the things any teenager who was 4,000 miles away from home might do. He skipped school with some less than desirable buddies (and got caught!), he fell behind in his classwork and spent way too much of his parent’s money on designer sneakers. But we loved him and took him to church, baseball games and our family Thanksgiving get-together. When Christmas rolled around, we were delighted that Bardhyl’s mom and younger brother flew out to join us. They arrived the day before Christmas Eve – just in time for a snowstorm. They were only able to get out of the hotel when I drove over with my 4-wheel drive, to get them. After they arrived, brushed off the snow and had warmed up a bit, we got them some hot chocolates and sat down in the living room. As they looked around at our many decorations, I asked if they knew why we put up the tree and exchanged gifts. “No, we don’t know much about it, we don’t have this holiday in Kosovo” Bardhly’s mom politely answered.

“Would you like for me to explain it to you.” I eagerly asked.

“Please. We’d really like to learn.” she answered with a smile

So, I pointed to the top of our tree and said, “That star stands for the star that the wise men followed when they went to Bethlehem.” I was about to continue, but from the blank looks on their faces, I realized that they had also never heard of the wise men! What a blessing it was that afternoon to go back and tell the entire story of Christmas, to people who had never heard it before. In fact, I still love telling the stories of Christmas, both to those who have never heard and those who have heard them a thousand times. It all began with a star, a promise and a child and it ends with Christ the Savior, who came to give His life for ours. This year my stories come in a large print book called, “The Christas Star”. It includes 30 days of short, down to earth devotionals, as well as a section at the end where you can write down your own favorite Christmas story. The Christmas Star is also available in both eBook as well as standard print on Amazon. If you would be interested, here is the link to the large print version. Have a blessed weekend everybody!

Christmas Sunshine

Welcome to the Christmas edition of Sunshine newsletter. Sunshine is a free publication distributed to 8-9 Senior Communities in Western New York and Central Florida. Pastor Janice Burnett, Rob Keller and I, invite you to share this material for free with anyone you know in long term care. You may also contact me at Revpete51@gmail.com to get on our mailing list to receive our PDF version. This is our Christmas Eve edition which signals the beginning of my Christmas weekend break from blogging. I would like to wish all of you a Merry Christmas and thank you for your input, encouragement and the great posts I have had the chance to read all throughout 2021.

One Stitch at a Time by Peter Caligiuri

For you formed my inward parts; You knitted me together in my mother’s womb. Psalms 139:13 ESV

My Mom loved to knit gifts for people, and year after year, stitch by stitch she made many beautiful blankets, sweaters and socks. When the Bible tells us that God chose to knit us together, it reminds me of my mother’s patient stitches creating one knitting project after another. I picture God working together our tiny strands of DNA to form each of us, one stitch at a time. When the Bible tells us that Jesus was made just like us, we might think it means that He looked like other men. But we need to remember that God’s knitting project began when Gabriel first came to Mary. How startling to think that Jesus left His position in heaven and became a single thread of life inside of Mary. Though His birth was announced by angels and commemorated by the gifts of the Magi; Jesus still was still knit together in the same way as the rest of us. Some of us struggle with letting go of even our smallest privileges. But imagine that for nine months the Son of God let go of the glory of heaven as stitch by stitch He was knit together. He quietly waited nine months in Mary’s womb till the day God finished His last stitch. Then He opened His eyes, took His first breath and became God’s gift, knit just for us and given for the salvation of the world!

O Little Town of Bethlehem by Philipp Brooks

How silently, how silently, the wondrous Gift is giv’n;
So God imparts to human hearts the blessings of His Heav’n.
No ear may hear His coming, but in this world of sin,
Where meek souls will receive Him still, the dear Christ enters in

Christmas Eve – Pastor Janice Burnett

Merry Christmas! It is Christmas Eve, and it is the season to express our holiday greetings, isn’t it?! We have talked about the Hope, the Peace, the Joy, and the Love of God. Now we are going to talk about Jesus – the presence of Light himself! On Christmas Eve in church services around the world – and perhaps in your faith tradition – lighting candles has always been important. Many churches have the tradition of having candles burning in the sanctuaries as a reminder of the number of years that have passed since the birth of Christ, or in memory of those who have passed away. Some have said that the lighting of candles represents the light of Christ.

John 8:12: I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness but will have the light of life.

Regardless of what the tradition, having candles on Christmas Eve is a beautiful one. Having that light takes away the fear of what is unseen. Think about what happens when we lose our lights during a blackout. We depend so automatically on the electricity being on all the time – but if it goes out for any length of time, panic begins to set in. Jesus himself IS THE LIGHT of the world. He came to earth to be light – not just to bring light. You know me as Pastor Jan – short for Janice. My family called me Jannie growing up. And, we also had nicknames for each other. Was it the same for you? I don’t know you personally, but your family members and the people around you do. Names have meanings and they say that my name Jan, means God’s favor. I’ll take that any day, wouldn’t you?! In the time of the Bible, the meaning of a name was very important, and in fact, Jesus Himself had several different names. Jesus said that He is the Light but there was another name given to him in the Bible. That name was Emmanuel given to Him by the prophet Isaiah long before He was born – Emmanuel means “God with us” Then seven hundred years later an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream with the news that it was time for Emmanuel to come.

Matthew 1:22-23: “All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: “The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel” - which means “God with us.”

This Christmas Eve let’s remember that Jesus is Immanuel – God with us. He was born that holy night more than 2,000 years ago to be with us and bring us salvation and He is still with us today. He has given us His presence today – and every day that we open up our hearts and invite Him to be born in us today!

Merry Christmas from all of us here at The Sunshine Newsletter - Pastor Janice Burnett, Rob Keller, Sue Hyson and me (Peter Caligiuri)
May God bless you and keep you all through the year!

Thursday Sunshine – Fourth Advent Week – Love

Worship at His Feet

And going into the house, they saw the child with Mary his mother, and they fell down and worshiped him. Then, opening their treasures, they offered him gifts, gold and frankincense and myrrh.  Matthew 2:11 ESV

At a recent meeting at our church the pastor’s wife reminded us of the wise men when she said, “The more we seek Him: the more He finds us.” We usually think of the wise men as going out on a quest to find God’s Son. But more likely they were emissaries chosen to carry gifts and give worship, to a neighboring king’s child so as to curry political favor. But the star they followed led them further than they imagined. Maybe when they left Persia, they simply planned on visiting a neighboring kingdom. But instead of a few days on the road, they discovered that the star directed them over a thousand miles across the desert to Israel. When they arrived at the capital city, Jerusalem they were invited into the king’s palace. The wise men probably unloaded the camels shouting, “Finally we’re here!” But that’s when things got strange. That evening at supper they learned that the one who they had been seeking was not the king’s son, but instead a special chosen one of God, whom the Jews called the Messiah. The next afternoon as they started towards Bethlehem, the star they had followed appeared again yet this time led them not to a palace, but to an ordinary house. There in the light of God’s star they found a child who was the true King sent from Heaven. In Him they found the one who had been seeking them and there they opened their treasures and worshiped at His feet!

“Earth’s crammed with heaven, and every common bush afire with God, but only he who sees, takes off his shoes.” – Elizabeth Barrett Browning

Love Is

Love is patient to slow its pace
And walk with us our street
Love is kind when it takes time
To wash our dirty feet

Love protects from angry waves
And trusts when we can’t see
And hopes in hours before sunrise
When shadows finally flee

After everything in us has fallen
Love still stays standing true
Believing the impossible
That we will make it through


Love Is by Peter Caligiuri copyright 2021 all rights reserved
Do not waste time bothering whether, you 'love' your neighbor; act as if you do and you will presently come to love him" C S Lewis