A Cup of Cold Water

And whoever gives one of these little ones only a cup of cold water in the name of a disciple, assuredly, I say to you, he shall by no means lose his reward.” Mt 10:42 NKJV

Last year about this time I was finally realizing that my wife would not be home for Valentine’s Day. Nancy had left just before Christmas to fly 3,000 miles to California to take care of a sister who lived alone and had been hospitalized after a terrible fall. Diane’s diagnosis was not good, and her rare lung disease (ILD) was rapidly taking away her strength. Though I missed Nancy, I was also so proud of my wife who was such a champion through all the months of missing Christmas with her grandchildren, losing sleep and holding up under the pressures of becoming a caregiver. When I just happened to stop at the Walgreens to pick up a prescription, I noticed the fancy heart shaped boxes of chocolate candy and decided to send one along with a card for Nancy. As I dropped the candy into my cart I paused and decided that just for fun I would pick up a second smaller box for Diane and I picked out a card for her as well.

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After dropping the Valentine’s stuff in the mail that afternoon, I pretty much forgot all about it, till a few days later. The phone rang and my wife’s happy voice on the other end reminded me how much she loved chocolates and that my little gift was just what she needed that day. As we spoke, I could hear Diane in the background saying something I couldn’t make out, then Nancy paused and said, “Just a minute Diane has something she wants to tell you.”

As I listened to the sound of the phone being passed, wondering what could be so important, Diane’s voice with the happiest tone I had ever heard came on the line. “Peter, thank you so much for sending me the card and the chocolates! Do you know that you are the first person in my life who ever sent me a box of candy for Valentine’s Day?”

I tell this story, not because i want anyone to think I did some tremendous act of kindness, but to encourage you to know the value of the smallest kindness you can show another person. It is rarely the cost of the gift you are giving, but about the demonstration of love that tells them, you matter, you have value and I remember you. On Valentine’s Day we do special things for our spouse or for someone we love. This year, why not remember that it is also an opportunity to show God’s love to someone who is alone. That small kindness tells them that God remembers and values them. It might be a small box of chocolates, a handful of flowers or even just a cup of cold water but is precious to Jesus and something that He promises will never lose its reward!

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Mustard Tree Faith

And he said, “With what can we compare the kingdom of God, or what parable shall we use for it? It is like a grain of mustard seed, which, when sown on the ground, is the smallest of all the seeds on earth, yet when it is sown it grows up and becomes larger than all the garden plants and puts out large branches, so that the birds of the air can make nests in its shade.”             Mark 4:30-32 ESV

We often hear of how Jesus said that the kingdom of God is like a mustard seed. But what is forgotten is that Jesus didn’t teach us that His kingdom was a small seed but that it could grow. In fact Jesus taught that His kingdom was like the smallest of seeds that grew into the largest plant in the garden. For those of us in nursing home ministry, Mustard Tree Faith calls for us as members of God’s kingdom to minister to the needs of the long term care community –  residents, caregivers and family members. Our vision is that the kingdom of God – in both our personal lives and in our communities must grow. In order for our faith  to grow according to God’s design we are called to follow the three simple steps Jesus gave us in both our daily lives and ministry.

First we must be planted. All of us who are Christians today come from the single seed of Jesus Christ planted on the hill of Golgotha. Because Jesus surrendered His life willingly on the cross we have the hope of eternal life. As followers of Jesus we must also give ourselves willingly and completely to serve where he has called us. Nursing home ministry is not just for special occasions, holidays or when we feel impelled by momentary pangs of guilt. We joyfully and consistently dedicate ourselves to sharing the hope of eternal life found only in the message of Jesus death, burial and resurrection.

And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. Romans 5:5 ESV

Second we dedicate to growth. Giving ourselves fully to God’s ministry does not mean being content to do our work without seeing any growth. The mustard seed Jesus talked about grew to be the largest plant in the garden. First we must grow down! In practical terms that may mean getting involved with special events being planned at our facilities, networking with the staff and going the extra mile in visiting those in need outside of regularly scheduled nursing home services. Our connections are not only to make our own ministry grow but they open the door so that others can come alongside of us in service. The needs in long term care are so deep and so many that no one person, no matter how dedicated gifted or energetic can possibly meet them all. Our roots give us stability and security so our outreach can branch outward. Do not be afraid to try new things. Doors that God opens are meant for us to go through. If our motivation is firmly based on the love of God people they will know it. There are times of loneliness, isolation and despair for residents, care givers and family members in long term care. Only Jesus Christ can meet them at their lowest points and give the assurance of faith they need. Our job is to faithfully show up and let God can arrange that meeting!

Third a mustard tree becomes a place of refuge. People will be able to come to us and find a place of rest, refreshment and safety. They will be able to “make their nest” or in other words, find a home. We are not just to skate in and out of our place of service like movie stars making  guest appearances. We are called to be family members to those who sometimes have lost theirs or been forgotten. When we have been there through both good times and bad we will one day look around and discover that the mustard seed of faith God gave us has grown to be a tree!

Hope of Healing

That it might be fulfilled which was spoken by Esaias the prophet, saying, Himself took our infirmities, and bare our sicknesses      Matthew 8:17 KJV

Did you know that God is so intimately concerned with our physical needs that He has even counted the number of hairs on our head? We have a great hope that whether in this life or in the next; God will heal every disease, restore all that is broken and renew our youth like the eagles!
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Whether sitting in a wheel chair in a nursing home or confined to a bed with a tracheotomy tube in order to breathe, Jesus offers the hope of complete and entire healing as one part of His promise of eternal life. That promise may be overlooked or forgotten by those in perfect health, but God does not forget. The same Jesus who was moved with compassion for lepers, the blind and the lame has promised to wipe every tear from our eyes. He not only has compassion for our aches, pains and disabilities but the Bible tells us that He took all of these onto his shoulders and carried them. If we continue reading in the chapter of Isaiah that Matthew quotes we see in the very next verse that it is by His stripes that we are healed. God is so very concerned for every one of our pains and infirmities that He allowed a whip to fall across the shoulders of Jesus. As He was wounded again and again we were being healed. Weak arms will be lifted, failing voices will sing again and deaf ears will hear the shepherd’s voice! When the things of earth have passed we will stand strong and eternally young in the presence of our ageless King!

Excerpt from 50 Days of Hope – A special devotional for residents, workers and family members of the long term care community.

50 Days of Hope

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