The Power of Two

Again I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. Matthew 18:19 ESV

The power of two has been obvious ever since God looked down at Adam sleeping in the garden and said, “It is not good for man to be alone!” Moses had his brother Aaron, and Joshua stuck with Caleb. Jesus regularly sent the disciples out two by two, and even taught us that having a partner in prayer can move Heaven. In nursing home ministry, it is so easy to get so motivated to just get out there and get something done that we might forget to look to others for help. Being motivated to launch out is a great way to get started, but having a team member in ministry is vital to carry on the work.

But you might say, “I don’t know anyone who is interested in helping in nursing home ministry. But our lack of handy volunteers isn’t a problem for God. What He wants from us is simply the willingness to work with those He brings our way. Even when it seems we are alone at a facility, God just may surprise us from unexpected sources.

One of my favorite “volunteer stories” is about a man named Bruce. Bruce worked in the maintenance department of one of the facilities that I visit. After the service, Bruce would often greet me with a smile, a handshake, and a comment about how he also loved the hymns. One week Bruce asked if he could help sing with me. Though it seemed an odd request, I was later surprised and delighted as I heard his rich baritone voice joining in with me on “How Great Thou Art.” Not only was that a special blessing for me, but the residents also loved Bruce’s singing. Bruce reminded me that we were able to do far more together than either of us could do alone. Because we sang together, people had the chance to see their maintenance man in a whole new light. Though many residents looked forward to my coming in every Friday, Bruce could be there to encourage them or pray for them every day. Sadly, it was only a month or so until Bruce moved on to another job, but the memory of how God uses us together has encouraged me to always be keeping an eye out for the next “Bruce” who God might bring my way!

Jesus the Volunteer (The service entrance)

Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant,
being made in human likeness. Philippians 2:6-7 NIV

The key to successful volunteering, is to follow the example of Jesus. The Bible tells us that though Jesus was in very nature God, worshipped by angels and seated next to the Father, that He set aside His position and privileges and volunteered to be made a servant. How Jesus came, reminds me of when I worked on the estate of a very wealthy woman. Her mansion was set on the top of a small hill at the end of a long driveway. In front was a field once used by her horses as a pasture and behind were several acres of woods. Facing the main parking area for the house was a large impressive white door with columns on either side. But we who worked on the property had another entrance tucked away behind some bushes on the side. That entrance led to a small green house, a break room and a set of stairs leading up to the kitchen. Just over that doorway was a small sign with the words, “Service Entrance.” While guests gained entry through a much finer looking door, they needed to have an appointment. On arrival, they often were greeted by the housekeeper with a large guard dog (named George) who sat quietly as long as she was nearby. Only after carefully checking the visitors, did she usher them into the living room, where they waited for the lady of the house.

The same two entrances are in every human heart. There is a formal entrance in the front, but to gain entry, an appointment is required, and visitors are carefully checked over before being welcomed. But the other doorway is the doorway that Jesus chose: “The Service Entrance.” If we want to reach hearts as volunteers, let’s follow His example and come as servants. Only trusted servants may enter by the service entrance, and though it is humble, it has a stairway that leads directly to the heart!

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What is a Volunteer?

And whoever gives one of these little ones even a cup of cold water because he is a disciple, truly, I say to you, he will by no means lose his reward.” Matthew 10:42 ESV

Not long ago my friends, Bob and Rita told me that due to their health issues, they were just too tired to continue volunteering. I was sad not only because I knew they loved coming, but because serving communion and helping pass out the newsletters may sound like small duties; but they matter far more to the residents than you may realize. Each volunteer in nursing home ministry brings with them their life experience, personality and heart. For those in long-term care, a volunteer represents someone who came, not because it was their job or their family duty, but because they cared. Volunteering in a nursing home takes a great many forms and each one of them matters to God. As Jesus said, “whoever gives one of these little ones even a cup of cold water…will by no means lose his reward.” Any small act that is done in love will be remembered by God.

Without Bob and Rita this last month, I struggled to figure out a way to offer communion to those who gather for the Sunday afternoon service. Each week I brought along the bag with the supplies in hopes of inspiration, but each week returned with it unopened. Then this Sunday at Discovery Village, I noticed there was a new staff member who had been assigned to stay with the residents during the service. I was delighted that when I asked for help, she graciously said “Sure, no problem!” So, I took out the cups, the serving trays, the bottle of juice and the box of Matzoh crackers and quickly explained how to prepare everything and then began the service. All seemed well as we progressed towards communion time, but after we finished singing and I was about to ask God’s blessing on the elements, I noticed that the plate for the bread still stood empty and Ava looked at me and asked, “How much do I need to use?” “Just break up one, it should be plenty,” I hurriedly whispered. Then. hoping for the best, I bowed my head, prayed and started playing the Old Rugged Cross. Just as I sang the first couple of notes, I noticed one of the residents springing into action. “Here, let me help!” Virginia offered as she went forward, taking hold of one of the plates. Then, as she started passing out the bread, a man who was there visiting his mom, also jumped up and took one of the trays of the cups. Though I had no plan, God provided three new volunteers in place of the two we had lost!

I say all this, to show that all it takes to be a volunteer, is a readiness to be pressed into action and a willingness to help. Jesus isn’t asking how qualified we are but whether we are willing to share with others, that cup of cold water that we have in our hands. If you are interested in becoming involved as a Nursing Home volunteer, stay tuned the next couple of days, because I will offer some simple guidelines to help you to get started. If you are already serving, then watch for links to some various resources that we offer, some free and others at a low cost that can help equip you on your journey as a volunteer. One four-legged volunteer recently walked into our meeting, right in the middle of the song service. But because she was so beautiful and gentle, I had to pause and get a few photos. She can’t sing or preach, but she brings a lot of comfort every time she lays her head in the lap of one of the residents and lets them stroke her neck! She reminds us that if we are willing to just hug a few necks, then we can share the love of Jesus with someone today!