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Everyone Can Be a Volunteer

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He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. Luke 10:34 NIV

My volunteering in nursing homes began with a friend named Darryl, who with his wife Beverly went to church with us. Then one day Darryl had a massive stroke and ended up in a nursing home about thirty minutes away from where we lived. Since my job was in that city, Beverly would often ask if I could stop by some day after work to visit him. Though that sounded like a nice idea, but I procrastinated because I knew how tired I was at the end of the workday. Every week I made another excuse, but every week Beverly persistently asked (and the Holy Spirit was convicting me!) Finally, I decided to at least give it a try, and that visit, some thirty-four years ago, opened the way to becoming a volunteer chaplain, which has been of the greatest blessings of my life.

But being a volunteer goes far beyond the walls of long-term care facilities. For example, we have friends with three daughters, ages 10-17. Their youngest is named Laura and Laura is a down’s syndrome child. Raising their girls with equal love has been a tough balancing act because sometimes Laura requires so much time and energy that the other two have had to put their own time with mom and dad on hold. Then there is my good friend Rob in our men’s group who has multiple sclerosis. Rob struggles just to stand up and get a grip on his walker, at the end of each meeting, and yet he is there most weeks, in part because his wife Lisa helps him to get ready. If you think that these people are the exception, you would be correct. But the story of the Good Samaritan shows us, that God has strategically placed people in all our lives, to give us the opportunity to be what Jesus would call a volunteer – a good neighbor! As a neighbor we all know a Laura, a Rob or a Darryl and what we decide to do can change their lives and ours forever.

I once heard someone say that “If you can get paid for what you love to do then you will never work a day in your life.” But as a volunteer I like to think that “If we just love for free, the people God has put in our path, then one day we will discover treasures in Heaven that will last forever! “

Another Good Samaritan

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And one of them, when he saw that he was healed, turned back, and with a loud voice glorified God, and fell down on his face at his feet, giving him thanks: and he was a Samaritan. Luke 27:15-16 ESV

With hospitals, charities and even news stories named after him, It doesn’t take a theologian to tell you about the “Good Samaritan.” But did you know there was another “Good Samaritan” we don’t hear much about. Like his better-known countryman, he did something good that others had decided not to. This man had a life destroying problem named leprosy, that forced him into quarantine outside of his village, where he lived with nine other lepers. Lepers were considered unclean, and in this man’s case doubly so because he was a Samaritan. As a Samaritan, he couldn’t live in the same neighborhood, worship in the same building or even drink from the same cup as Jews. Yet in spite of everything stacked against him, he along with his friends, cried out to Jesus for mercy. I will bet that they could hardly believe their ears when Jesus told them that all they had to do to be healed was to go to the priest. Understandably all of them (probably with a hoot and a holler) hightailed it towards town!

But halfway to the priest, this “Good Samaritan”, overwhelmed with gratitude, turned back to tell Jesus thank you. Though everyone else kept running towards the priest’s house, the Samaritan went back, and, like the wise men before him, he fell at Jesus’ feet to worship Him. So, I ask myself, when was the last time I, went to Jesus to give Him thanks for all He has done? When was the last time I fell at His feet to worship Him?

What is a Volunteer?

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And whoever gives one of these little ones even a cup of cold water because he is a disciple, truly, I say to you, he will by no means lose his reward.” Matthew 10:42 ESV

Not long ago my friends, Bob and Rita told me that due to their health issues, they were just too tired to continue volunteering. I was sad not only because I knew they loved coming, but because serving communion and helping pass out the newsletters may sound like small duties; but they matter far more to the residents than you may realize. Each volunteer in nursing home ministry brings with them their life experience, personality and heart. For those in long-term care, a volunteer represents someone who came, not because it was their job or their family duty, but because they cared. Volunteering in a nursing home takes a great many forms and each one of them matters to God. As Jesus said, “whoever gives one of these little ones even a cup of cold water…will by no means lose his reward.” Any small act that is done in love will be remembered by God.

Without Bob and Rita this last month, I struggled to figure out a way to offer communion to those who gather for the Sunday afternoon service. Each week I brought along the bag with the supplies in hopes of inspiration, but each week returned with it unopened. Then this Sunday at Discovery Village, I noticed there was a new staff member who had been assigned to stay with the residents during the service. I was delighted that when I asked for help, she graciously said “Sure, no problem!” So, I took out the cups, the serving trays, the bottle of juice and the box of Matzoh crackers and quickly explained how to prepare everything and then began the service. All seemed well as we progressed towards communion time, but after we finished singing and I was about to ask God’s blessing on the elements, I noticed that the plate for the bread still stood empty and Ava looked at me and asked, “How much do I need to use?” “Just break up one, it should be plenty,” I hurriedly whispered. Then. hoping for the best, I bowed my head, prayed and started playing the Old Rugged Cross. Just as I sang the first couple of notes, I noticed one of the residents springing into action. “Here, let me help!” Virginia offered as she went forward, taking hold of one of the plates. Then, as she started passing out the bread, a man who was there visiting his mom, also jumped up and took one of the trays of the cups. Though I had no plan, God provided three new volunteers in place of the two we had lost!

I say all this, to show that all it takes to be a volunteer, is a readiness to be pressed into action and a willingness to help. Jesus isn’t asking how qualified we are but whether we are willing to share with others, that cup of cold water that we have in our hands. If you are interested in becoming involved as a Nursing Home volunteer, stay tuned the next couple of days, because I will offer some simple guidelines to help you to get started. If you are already serving, then watch for links to some various resources that we offer, some free and others at a low cost that can help equip you on your journey as a volunteer. One four-legged volunteer recently walked into our meeting, right in the middle of the song service. But because she was so beautiful and gentle, I had to pause and get a few photos. She can’t sing or preach, but she brings a lot of comfort every time she lays her head in the lap of one of the residents and lets them stroke her neck! She reminds us that if we are willing to just hug a few necks, then we can share the love of Jesus with someone today!