The Snickel’s Family Friend

 A friend loves at all times,
and a brother is born for a time of adversity
Proverb 17:17 NIV
In the Spring of ’86 just as the days were turning warm
With the money they had saved they bought the field above the farm
And as their boys ran through the hayfield, they watched the cows below
Then imagined how their house would look and where the garden ought to go

The Snickels watched their home being built as it took about a year
Then they sorted, prayed and planned when they saw the time growing near
For the move out to the country and to leave their friends behind
Oh, what a great adventure, that they pictured in their mind

But as the seasons came and went, very soon their two boys grew tall
While the garden that they planted filled up the canning jars each Fall
And their work seemed almost endless, so they hardly noticed how things changed
To wake up one day and find their boys lives were being rearranged

The boys left behind their household chores for college and a job
And as the little home grew still, the quiet days just seemed so odd
It seemed like only yesterday when Snickels pancakes filled each plate
Now looking out they watched as now the empty field fill up with flakes

But in their sudden loneliness God spoke His promise true
That through the night however long He'd make each sunrise new
And on the pathway that we walk He keeps close onto the end
And through every year that passes He will be our faithful friend

The Snickel's Family Friend
By Peter Caligiuri
Copyright © 2023
All rights reserved

Guarding the Harbor

Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life. Proverbs 4:23 NLT

That Sunday morning, no one, least of all Diane, was ready. At 7:45 A. M., she was still snuggling down under the blankets and thinking of how wonderful it was that her father’s job with the Navy had brought their family all the way from Connecticut to Hawaii. The temperature the day before had been in the upper 70’s, and compared to snowy Southern New England, which felt like heaven! Then she heard the sound of planes flying over their house, and she sat up and looked out the window caught a glimpse of a red circle on one of the wings as the formation turned towards the harbor. Immediately the phone began ringing, and she heard the door to her parent’s room creak open and her dad’s footsteps going into the kitchen to answer. When Diane slipped out of bed and tip-toed to her doorway, she saw daddy running back into his bedroom and heard her mom yelling for her and her older brother Don to wake up. Then from the direction of the harbor came the sound of explosions such as she had never heard before and in a moment her world was changed. That little girl Diane was my mother and her dad, my grandfather, was the captain of one of the destroyers at Pearl Harbor. That morning he made it to His ship and engaged the enemy. After the attack, his ship was sent out to sea and my grandmother with mom and two brothers moved back to Connecticut, and never returned to what they had thought was heaven on earth.

Today many of us are no more ready for what lies ahead in our spiritual lives, than my family was on December 7th, 1941. Just as no one knew that the Japanese planes were coming to attack our fleet that morning, we also can never know what challenges or difficulties await us in the future. Pearl Harbor became the worst military defeat in our history because we left the harbor unguarded. Today’s verse tells us that we must also guard the harbor of our hearts, and there is no better way to do that than by prayer. But the kind of prayer that is needed means more than just sitting up in bed and watching out the window as the enemy attacks. Prayer that guards our hearts will supply ammunition for the anti-aircraft guns that protect the harbor and, watches God’s radar for any enemy incursion of our airspace. That kind of prayer doesn’t just fearfully huddle in a corner wondering what to do, but it boldly rushes to battle stations and engages the enemy. Now there are certainly times, even when we pray, that we will still face temporary defeats. But just as the Navy repaired its ships after Pearl Harbor and recruited and trained thousands of seamen and went on to win the war, we can do the same. We can begin that process by contacting our spiritual Naval headquarters. And find out what new orders God has assigned us and then, trust His command as we launch out to sea. Then, even with a war raging on, we can be thankful for His promise that He will be with us through every danger and will lead us on to victory no matter what lies ahead!

The family photo is of my mom, her brother Don and my grandparents, The bottom photo is of my grandfather, Captain A.J. Detzer, taken in 1945. This post is a reprint of an article which appeared in the 2023 Spring Issue of Breakthrough Intercessor magazine.

Memories From the Farm

‭‭Luke‬ ‭2:7‬ ‭ESV‬‬ And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in swaddling cloths and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn.

My recollections from milking our cow, named Blossom have given me a unique perspective of the “little Lord Jesus asleep in the hay”. It is usually quiet in the barn at night, but on that one special evening the silence was interrupted by a mother’s groans and a child’s cry. Our dear Lord humbly came, allowing His tiny arms and legs to be wrapped in swaddling clothes and His small head found its rest on a rough pile of hay in the ciw’s feeding trough. I hope my memories may bring the echo of this song back to your heart as you listen to our singing.

“Be near me Lord Jesus I ask Thee to stay. Close by me forever and love me I pray.”